Do you wear your Engagement Ring after the Wedding?

Diamonds, one of the most sought after gemstones in the world, are the symbol of love and everything else in between. But what happens to your engagement ring after the wedding day? Do you wear it front and centre, or do you place it away in a jewellery box forever? 

There are a few different ways brides-to-be can plan on wearing their diamond engagement and wedding rings. We’ll explore below all of the options. Whether after the ceremony it is time to give up the engagement ring or wear the rings together forever. 

Wearing two together as a set 

The classic choice for newly married brides - wearing both rings as a set, side by side. This is usually seen as a beautiful stack on the ring finger of the left hand. The wedding band placed closest to your heart, symbolising your closeness and commitment, and the engagement ring above it, representing your love and promise. It's customary for the rings to go together and typically throughout the marriage will be worn as a pair.

All bridal sets at Janai are crafted to sit flush, ensuring they complement each other beautifully. You’ll find that when you wear them together, they work seamlessly. After all, they were designed to be worn together forever. Every custom design engagement ring and wedding ring at Janai shaped to fit together and designed to be a pair.

Pros: Wearing both rings complement each other, together fitting perfectly and symbolising your love and commitment

Cons: It might feel a bit much in certain settings, such as your workplace or if your lifestyle leans towards minimalism 

Wearing wedding ring only

Another option is exchanging the engagement ring for your wedding band after the ceremony. This is a minimalist and practical approach - trading your statement piece for a more subtle symbol of your commitment. There are certain settings where a wedding band worn alone is simply more appropriate. 

There may be many reasons. Some workplaces have policies where only a plain wedding ring is allowed - requiring a more minimalist and neat look. Others work with their hands a lot or wear gloves throughout the day, and an engagement ring is not practical (spending more time in nature or where environments may be a bit more relaxed). They may be travelling and fear their diamond engagement ring being lost or stolen. Or, most simply, those who exchange the engagement ring for the wedding ring could merely have a more understated and minimal aesthetic and be saving their engagement ring for more special occasions when they're more dressed up.

Pros: Minimalist elegance, the wedding ring can be worn everyday without ever feeling out of place.

Cons: It may feel too understated or undesirable in more formal settings. Certain brides can also be more sentimental and believe in always wearing the pair together.

Wearing engagement ring only 

This is a newer trend that has made its way into newlywed circles, and it’s certainly a little controversial. Some brides are choosing to wear only their engagement ring after the wedding, opting to forgo the wedding band leaving it safely packed away.

Traditionally the wedding band takes its place as the ultimate symbol of unity and commitment after the vows are exchanged. Certainly if you’re following etiquette the wedding band would be worn after the wedding. But traditions are not always followed to the letter - with some new brides making their own rules.

If you decide to keep the spotlight purely on the dazzling diamond engagement ring, you’re bound to turn heads. However, that might come with its fair share of questions. Expect a few curious glances about whether you’re married or not. It’s a conversation starter, for sure. 

Pros: The engagement ring takes centre stage as your statement diamond piece - the one that tells your love story.

Cons: Expect questions about your martial status or whether your wedding was postponed. If you’re one to keep private about your relationship, this might feel a little intrusive.

Diamonds are forever and so is their versatility 

At the end of the day, how you wear your diamond rings is entirely up to you. No doubt this will look different for everyone. It’s about choosing what works for you, your environment and your personal style. The beauty of diamonds is that they are not only the most durable gemstones but also the most versatile and suitable for daily wear. 

Whether you choose to wear both your engagement ring and wedding ring every day, or save them for special occasions, your rings are a reflection of your lifestyle. What matters most is that when you wear them, you feel comfortable and confident, letting the beauty of your engagement and wedding rings shine in  a way that feels right for you. Diamonds, after all, are precious and should fit seamlessly into your life.

The idea is not to think too much about the rules, it’s important to focus on the sentiment and beauty of the rings. It’s best to gage the situation as to what’s appropriate, whether it's desirable and works seamlessly with your lifestyle so you are proudly wearing them with a sense of ease without ever feeling out of place. It’s purely personal preference and practicality for your everyday life.

At Janai, we are passionate about creating one-of-a-kind bespoke luxurious engagement and wedding rings priding ourselves on our impeccably crafted designs. Let your rings be a true reflection of your love and a symbol that works effortlessly with your preferences.